• Career,  Lifestyle

    When your superpower is invisibility

    Follow my blog with Bloglovin As a black woman we have all been there you have either been in shop waiting to be served and there is no one else in the store and you can’t get anyone to acknowledge your existence. Or you are in the office in a meeting and come up with an idea or suggestion and it like you are not there and someone else says the same thing and everyone says what a great idea its is. It’s like you are invisible, guess what even though you are black and you visually can’t be missed, there are those around us that will treat us as…

  • Career,  Goals,  Lifestyle

    What demotivates you?

    You are constantly being undermined and berated by those around, the very people who meant to support you and lift you up. You now find that you don’t want to do those things that you need to get where you need to be. What you need to do is either tell those people how what they are doing is affecting you or they need to be removed from your life and invite people that have a positive outlook on life. That will support and uplift you, more than likely you have these people in lives and you have not been making use of them. You need change that voice in…

  • Career,  Goals,  Lifestyle

    What holding you back?

    You often here that the only thing that holding you back is you. In other words that you are the problem. This is not always the case, the voices of those people that we all have in our lives that tell us we can’t do it and why. You want to make changes and list all reason why you can’t , you get well paid, it’s a good job, you have bills to pay. What if it doesn’t work. They say okay so how you going to do this. Or offer any support so that you can pursue a dream or a passion. Not having someone in corner that has…

  • Career,  Fashion & Beauty,  Lifestyle

    Naked

    Why it is every Monday the same thing happens, I can’t decide on what to wear. It’s not that I don’t have anything to wear if anything I have too much to decide from. I am often tempted to take the Steve Jobs approach to getting dressed. That has a wardrobe full of the same identical outfits so that I don’t have to spend time thinking about what to wear. The downside to that is that it’s almost like that you start your day numb and just going through the motions and not really express your mood for the day. I find that the outfit that put on in the…

  • Career,  Lifestyle

    Failure

      Someone once said a failure is an event. How you deal with that event is what defines you. If you failure is an event that you can learn from. You need to ask yourself the following questions. What did you do right Where can you improve What did you do wrong What did you learn You should then decide how you’re move forward, in other word’s dust yourself off and try again once you have tweaked your approach. What are you going to do whilst you are waiting to succeed? Are there projects that you can be doing, that can be volunteering, can contribute to industry papers or start your…